Thursday, June 16, 2016

I'm Filing for Divorce from Tom Hiddleston



What is Tom Hiddleston doing? 

A couple of years ago, when I was still at Madonna, I succumbed to the internet fad that was Tom Hiddleston. At the time, he was the God of the Internet, the Lord of Television, the Next Wonder of the Known World. 

However, it is startling how quickly the internet dismisses its former gods. Hardly anybody reblogs Hiddleston’s beautiful face anymore on tumblr. The internet has abandoned Hiddleston for greener pastures. Like the theory that Ted Cruz is the Zodiac Killer. 

                                                 

What is not to like about T. Hiddles? He is a self-proclaimed feminist. He reads poetry. He looks at people like they’re the answer to life. He wears blue shirts and, against his red hair, he looks like a sun rising. Basically, Tom Hiddleston checks every box on my “Rebekah’s Sensible Qualities To Look For In The Male Species,” and almost every box on “Rebekah’s Probably Outlandish Qualities To Expect In Men.” 

However, I am getting tired of Tom Hiddleston. He’s starting to uncheck all of my boxes pretty quickly.

And the first box to go was “self-proclaimed feminist.” 

Just recently, Hiddleston acted in a six-part miniseries called The Night Manager, also staring Hugh Laurie of House fame. Laurie wrote the series, I believe, and acted as The Bad Guy, whilst T. Hiddles acted as The Good Guy. Names of characters mean nothing to me at this point, because I only watched three episodes, and because my father referred to the actors as “The Night Manager,” (aka Tom Hiddleston) “The Bad Guy,” (or Hugh Laurie) and “The Girl” (whose name I don’t know because she’s a girl and therefore her name doesn’t get put into the commercials). 

God, the series was dreadful. It is probably what psychologists call a man’s fantasy. Hugh Laurie’s character assists an Egyptian man in a business deal for explosives during Arab Spring (the purpose of which I have yet to understand). The Egyptian keeps a mistress at the posh Egyptian hotel where Hiddleston works as the Night Manager. The mistress, overcome with Hiddleston’s good looks, gives him state secrets, and therefore her boyfriend arranges to have her brutally murdered. Hiddleston does his best to protect her, but alas! The episode ends with Hiddleston kneeling over her broken and bleeding body, swearing revenge against not the Egyptian lover, but Hugh Laurie. 

Forsworn, like Scott’s de Bois-Gilbert, to Never Ever Ever Love again after the love of his life (who he had known maybe three days) dies, Hiddleston leaves Egypt, which is forever stained for him now his beloved exotic lady is dead. However, through a series of very boring happenstances, Hiddleston and Laurie meet again, and M16 offers Hiddleston the chance to get Laurie back by going deep undercover as one of Laurie’s men. 

Hiddleston gets undercover, and is given one command: Don’t mess with Laurie’s Girl. Because girls aren’t allowed to choose who they sleep with, and boys are animals unable to keep it in their pants.
It was about this point I stopped watching, because there were two girls in the series (“the hot one” and “the smart one,” except Hiddleston was clearly much smarter than “the smart one” which kind of defeats the point), the plot was stupid, and I was getting a definitive “No Girls Allowed” vibe.
This vibe, coming from writer Hugh Laurie, does not surprise me. The man starred on House, after all, which has all of zero female role models. (Yes, you heard me, I said ZERO.) This coming from Tom Hiddleston does. He told us he was a feminist. He has one of those “This Is What a Feminist Looks Like” t-shirts. 

Does being a feminist mean it is still okay to act in shows that are directly misogynistic? I don’t think so.  

Hiddleston’s disastrous performance in The Night Manager is followed by the news that he may be playing our next James Bond which, of course, is a nail in his coffin. As James Bond, Hiddleston would merely continue playing the misogynistic suit that is Bond: Love ’em, Leave ’em, Blow some stuff up. 

Why would I want to watch this? If I want to watch some stuff blow up epically, then I’m going to watch Mad Max: Fury Road. I don’t see any appeal in watching Hiddleston-as-Bond woo, sleep with, and leave “The Hot Chick” without once looking back. That’s not just the romantic in me talking. That’s the “Please have the decency to treat women like human beings” in me. 

And I do wonder, now, how much of that handsome-feminist-Shakespeare-fanatic box-checking was manufactured by Hiddleston to gain followers while he had the spotlight. Is he really a feminist? And does being a feminist mean turning down roles like the ones Hiddleston played in The Night Manager and by turning down the chance to be Bond? Does it mean sticking to his other, stranger movies, like The Only Lovers Left Alive and Crimson Peak

It seems cruel to pigeonhole Hiddleston to the roles that I approve of—but at the same time, I can’t believe that a feminist would get much enjoyment out of belittling women on television. Maybe playing Henry V in The Hollow Crown got Hiddleston less money than playing James Bond would, but I have to believe the experience would be better, the pay more rewarding, and the knowledge that he is staying true to his feminist ideals would be more important than raking in an extra million on opening day. 

Tom Hiddleston is just a whole lot less attractive to me now than when he debuted as Loki. I can’t be sure he’s a feminist. The fact that he’s at least ten years older than me and possibly dating Taylor Swift (which for some reason feels gross, even though I’m sure the age range is suitable).  

Dr. Mack said that the problem with artists is that we, the consumers, like to keep them where we found them: No branching out, no trying anything new. And Tom Hiddleston is trying something new, and I hate it. I feel guilty and conflicted about hating it. But at the same time, I honestly believe that if someone or something isn’t up to my feminist standards (i.e., “Am I portrayed as an actual human being and could not feasibly be replaced by a lamp?”) then I don’t have to waste my time on it.

Tom Hiddleston, I have annoyed my friends for many years by boldly proclaiming you were the only man I’d ever marry. However, after several years, I’m sorry to say—I’m filing for divorce. Because for me, “new directions” does not necessarily equal “abandoning feminist sensibilities.” 

Good luck with your new movies, T. Hiddles. Call me if you’re ever in Michigan. We can work this out. 

Probably.

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